Conor happened to look at the article I was reading online that had an embedded video. The article was related to the movie Twilight, and the video was something about gay men.
My kid saw 2 guys sharing a sweet kiss and here’s what he said:
Conor: Two mans kissing? Yuck!
Me: First of all, it’s men not mans. Second of all, what’s wrong with that?
Conor: A boy should only kiss a girl.
Me: There’s nothing wrong with a boy kissing a boy, or with a girl kissing a girl. They have the right to do that. If you see a person kissing another person and you’re not comfortable about that, just look and walk away. Your reaction is not relevant. Now, would you kiss your friend K****?
Me: What about E***?
Me: So there’s nothing really yucky about that, is there?
Conor: Still yuck.
I’m not sure if that’s the best conversation to have with a kid who’s nearing 4 years old, but I had to let him know what I stand for as his mother/parent.
What I’m surprised and worried about is the reaction. Our family is not against any sexuality or religion, so where did he get that? Maybe at school? Is it innate? I don’t want to think that our reaction towards sexuality is innate, but that it’s influenced by our environment…but what do I know???